It’s not about just 1 day

My husband is deployed. I have noticed some of the little things he always did that I took for granted.

  • Coffee does not make itself in the mornings.
  • Laundry does not fold itself
  • Laundry does not put itself away
  • Trash does not take itself out
  • The large trash can is no fun to take out
  • I don’t automatically wake up at the right time every day.

I miss you David. I know doing all of these little chores is your way of showing me how much you love me every day.

Happy Valentines Day!!!! I love you tons & tons.

 

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I think It’s the 1930’s again. Can we learn from history?

Comparing ISIL to 1939 Germany:

 

First off I feel that I must explain a few things you might not know about me:

  • I am a news junkie.
  • I have a love for history.
  • I am Jewish, yes a practicing Jew.
  • I watched every minute of the twenty-two minute video showing the Jordanian pilot being burned to death.

First I must explain what prompted me to watch such a horrific video. I wanted to see the horror with my own eyes. I felt it was also a way to look into the past, I thought about the concentration camps. Many people were murdered brutally in the

 

concentration camps constructed by Nazi Germany. NO, I don’t want you to go [1]

 

watch this horrific video I would NOT recommend watching this video I do recommend you watch Shepard Smith of Fox News describe it.

Why I felt compelled to write this blog? As an avid news junkie I follow many news agencies, not just the common ones popular here in the United States. I feel there is something to be learned from history so we can hopefully not allow it to be repeated.

I took quite some time in putting this blog post together and researched each fact, to prove this I have done something I have not done since college endnotes. Yes I cite each fact. I strived to make this blog as factual as possible.

 

ISIL:

Wants to create a master faith. 1

Has slaughtered many in brutal & barbaric ways. 2

Many governments seem to be taking this situation lightly or trying to appease them. 3

 

Nazis:

Wanted to create a master race. 4

The Nazis wanted to eliminate all who were not just like them. 5

Many governments tried to appease Hitler. 6

 

 

Okay that’s the basic facts. Both groups want the whole world to be just like them. Both groups have and ISIL will continue to commit barbaric acts. Both groups committed horrible atrocities right under our noses.

I could write pages on this as there have been books written on both topics. I feel that we are on the brink of what could become world war three if something is not done. Yes back in the thirties the fight was “over there.” America was reluctant to get into the fight until we were attacked at Pearl Harbor. Military historians often say that Hitler could have been defeated easily during the 1930’s, if stronger action had been taken. 7 I don’t want to see war in my lifetime, but I fear that it will happen unless governments stop looking the other way. I do think if nothing more is done we are at risk for another attack on American soil, I don’t want to see another Pearl Harbor or another 9/11.

Many of you know I’m married to a soldier; yes I would still like to see stronger action. Yes, we might lose troops but I feel that a strong offensive action now can and will save lives.

As a reminder this blog is mine and the opinions stated in this blog piece are mine.

 

1 http://www.mcclatchydc.com/2015/02/06/255824/how-does-islamic-state-justify.html, http://www.vox.com/cards/isis-myths-iraq/isis-islam

2 http://rt.com/news/168916-isis-iraq-war-crimes/

3 http://www.cnn.com/2014/08/21/politics/isis-global-response-list/ : http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/06/14/america-s-allies-are-funding-isis.html

4 http://historacle.org/hitlers_supermen.html

5 http://www.kawvalley.k12.ks.us/schools/rjh/marneyg/04_holocaust-projects/04_amack_victims.htm

6 http://www.bbc.co.uk/bitesize/higher/history/roadwar/appease/revision/1/

7 http://www.spiegel.de/international/europe/the-road-to-world-war-ii-why-wasn-t-hitler-stopped-a-645707.html

 

 

 

 

 

My bucket list

it seems that this time of year brings up two common topics of conversation. Resolutions and bucket lists. Personally I gave up on the resolution angle years ago. I was chatting with my in-laws and the topic of bucket lists came up. I decided to sit down and give it some serious thought.

  • I want to meet several @Foxnews personalities, some of them are contributors  others are hosts.
    • @SeanHannity
    • @Greta
    • Dr Charles Krauthammer
    • The Crew from @TheFive
    • Sheppard Smith

These are the names that come to mind at the moment. I’m a news junkie so I think I’d have a blast meeting them and seeing what goes on behind the scenes.

  • I want to see the Philadelphia Mummers Parade
    • I’ve wanted to see this parade in person for as long as I can remember.

I grew up in the area and love the parade even though I can only watch it online now.

  • Lay a wreath at the Tomb of the Unknowns at Arlington
  • See the changing of the guard 150 times.
    • I’ve already seen it 114 times.

This is one of my favorite places on earth. I can stay at the tomb for hours the site is just awe inspiring as are the members of the old guard who watch over the tomb 365 days a year 24 hours a day.

  • Become a published author
    • In my dreams a published author with an agent

I love writing, I want to put in the effort to make this a reality. No one can hand this to me, but they can support and encourage me. I do enjoy my blog and twitter followers.

Organizational tricks for Turkey Day, Thanksgiving.

I cook almost every year. We all know the basics of the menu, well if you are sticking with tradition. It starts with turkey. Well our menu for 2014 is: Turkey, Cranberry Sauce, Whole Cranberry Sauce, Mashed Potatoes, Brown Gravy, White Pepper Gravy, Stuffing (dressing), Green bean casserole, Yams with marshmallows, Peas, Corn, Rolls, and of course pie for dessert.

Now none of this tends to stress me out, why?

I have a plan. On Wednesday morning, yes I said Wednesday after I get my coffee I throw some turkey parts, a couple of peeled and chunked up onions, a couple of carrots, some celery, and whatever seasoning I am using on the bird in my slow cooker. I dump in some water, turn the whole thing on low and ignore. I will get back to this in about 24 hours, yes it will be fine on low. I also make sure that the cranberry sauces are in the fridge.

Next I review that I have all of my ingredients, I always seem to forget something. Usually butter or milk, or heavy duty aluminum foil.

Now I use my nice clean and clear table. I lay out all of the pots and pans involved, yes I have had years where I had pictured one pot or pan for 2 things. Then I grab the ingredients and stage them with their pots & pans (no not the perishables, just the dry goods).  I also use a fair number of disposable pans and of course the Reynolds Turkey bag. So now plan for the next day and get some rest.

Thursday morning my house already smells wonderful, remember that broth I started the day before… yep it smells wonderful. I get dressed to lace up shoes, and get my coffee. When I’m getting my coffee I turn the slow cooker off. I sit and eat and enjoy my coffee.

Now that I’m ready I prep the Reynolds bag according to instructions and get that bird in the oven with it’s onions carrots, celery and seasoning. Once that bird is in the oven I move on to the rolls.

I cheat, but it works great. I grab those muffin tins we all have, yeah you know the one, that rarely gets used. I pull them out and grab my frozen Rhodes dough balls. I drop 2 dough balls in each muffin cup. They like 3 hours of being ignored, so this works out well.

Now that I have those items done I take a water break. Yes, I make time to drink some water. It can get hot in the kitchen. Okay, water break over.

I strain that broth that is sitting in my slow cooker and stick it in the fridge so the fat can rise to the top.

Next up I prep my green bean casserole, no it won’t go straight in the oven, but with that bird cooking I have room in the fridge for it. You all know of the casserole I speak of. So once I get that prepped in a nice disposable pan and covered in the fridge it goes.

Now for the yams with marshmallows, I prep them in a disposable pan, cover them and pop them into the fridge. Don’t forget to pick up and put away  cooking, trust it makes a difference. Do it now and load the dishwasher with anything you are done with.

Yep time to check on friends and family and poke my head out with more water in hand. Everyone will offer to help but unless they want to peel potatoes I really don’t need any help. I also make sure I have not left a disaster behind me, time to pick up and put away, or in the dishwasher again.

Okay next step is to peel those taters, and get them into a pot covered with water to keep them from browning. I’ll set them to boiling when the turkey has about 1 hour left in the oven. Yes, I drain the pot and refill it with fresh water to cook them.

Now I check on the broth in the fridge. Time to make the stuffing or dressing if you prefer. Some years I have the onions etc already sautéed if not I have do it now. Take your time and keep an eye on them, there is no rushing sautéing vegetable, really trust me I’ve tried. Once I get the stuffing or dressing if you prefer into, guess what? Another disposable pan, covered and in the fridge. Yes, I made use of some of that broth from my slow cooker, no need to wait on pan drippings and hope I have enough.

Time for more water, and another peak at the parade.

Time to check on that bird, and start the potatoes boiling. I peek at my rolls, they are rising nicely. Now it’s time to clear off a counter and prep it for the turkey when it comes out of the oven. I place a towel and some cardboard on the counter covered by another towel. I will need my stovetop so… the counter must be ready.

Now I mix up my gravy, yes from scratch. I make both white and brown since I often invite soldiers who have no where to go.

Okay time to get the warming tray plugged in. I love it for gravy and a few other things. If you don’t have one don’t worry about it. Time to get the corn and peas in their pans and on the stove.

Time for one last break. Another chance to stem the tide of disaster in the kitchen and keep the chaos to a minimum.

Oh it’s time for the bird to pop out of the oven. I get it out, now help is great, extra muscles. I take it out and let it rest in the nice prepared spot on the counter. Yep out and resting. Now those casseroles in the fridge, jump into the oven. You did cover them with foil right, so just pop em in.

The rolls are looking very pretty as well, so I brush them with an egg wash and pop them into the oven.

So taters are boiling, casseroles are baking, rolls are baking, bird is resting, peas and corn are on the stove, gravy is on the warming tray. I now move the bird to the cutting board, yep extra help is good here too. Like I said muscles are always good. I carve in the kitchen, your traditions may vary. I do have a second pan for the carved turkey standing by, yep another disposable. I don’t have a platter so I make do.

The rolls and casseroles are done, now to carve the star and get it one the table. Now as far as plates and silverware, I use high quality paper with real silverware, I do use real glassware.

Oh you ask about the pies, frozen or fresh picked up at the store, pop on the table after the bird is done, and add some ice cream and fresh plates, maybe a pot of coffee.

Why I drive in….

Well since I seem to be on a service kick…

Yes I’m talking about Sonic Drive In. I have a favorite location it’s in Fayetteville NC on Skibo rd, yep the one across from that big box store that’s always crowded. Okay I’ve been going there so long, half of the staff knows my vehicle and sometimes they have my drink ready before I can hit the red button. Yep I get the same thing, every time I’m there.

 

First I can be just plain lazy, no need to get out of the car. Second the staff there is AWESOME. I’ve had a few food & drink hiccups, but they were always fixed quickly and with a smile. I’m there an average of 5-6 days a week. Third I can control the heat & ac and make it just perfect.

Why, sometimes I’m reading, writing, plotting for Nanowrimo, or just plain hiding out.

 

Now that we moved across town I must admit that I’ll drive the extra few miles to go to my favorite sonic. I love seeing my smiling friends every time I pull in. Keep up the awesome service and keep an eye out out for your Large Diet Dr. Pepper with pineapple fan.