Why I bought a “Confederate” flag today.

First I’d say I didn’t  buy a “Confederate Flag” I bought the battle flag of General Robert E. Lee’s Northern Virginia Navy. I bought a 38 inch square flag, not a rectangle. IMG_0282Now that you know what flag I bought let me explain what I was thinking.

  • Soldiers fought and died for this flag.
    • I don’t care if you agree with why they were fighting.
    • Has everyone agreed with every fight fought under the Flag of the United States?
      • No, Vietnam, The War in Iraq come to mind.
  • I don’t see it as a symbol of racism or hatred, but part of our history.
  • I wont be flying the flag, it will most likely take up residence with other flags I’ve collected over the years.
    • Yes, I collect flags, most of them are US flags, but not exclusively.
  • I see attempts at banning this flag as a step down the slippery slope towards censorship.
    • We as a nation seem to be afraid to take a stand: i.e. when the movie American Sniper was not shown or nearly not shown on campuses because a few hundred students were offended by it.
    • Freedom of speech is a right. There is no right not to be offended, or guarantee of the intelligence of the speaker.
    • If they can pressure businesses to stop selling this whats next?
      • Will we start banning or burning books that someone finds offensive and drive them off the shelves?
        • My favorite living author Brad Thor has death threats against him for a book he wrote: The Last Patriot.
        • He writes fiction, or as he prefers to call it faction. As he has said (paraphrasing here) His goal is to take the reader on a white knuckle thrill ride, if you learn something along the way that’s even better.
        • Brad Thor is a master at weaving facts and fiction together that you have to use a search engine to dissect where one ends and the other begins. (Yes, I’ve done this with his books.)
        • Should his bestselling books be banned because they offend some people?
        • No!
      • Will people start trying to control what clothing is acceptable? (ISIS???)
        •  Can the elder ladies of the neighborhood get together and have mini skirts pulled off store shelves?
        • I may never wear a mini skirt, but if that’s your style have at it.

So in short I chose to exercise my freedom of speech through expression. I was asked if I wanted an amendment protecting my beloved American flag from being burned.

As much as it pains me to see the flag burned in protest NO! That’s taking away freedom of speech, it takes no courage to stand up for speech you agree with, they true measure of freedom of speech is protecting speech that is NOT popular.

So while the Stars and Bars may never hang on the walls of my home, I’m glad I bought it.

As to whether it should be part of a state flag or be flown over any particular capital or building that’s for the residents of that region to decide. I’m not a legal resident of any of the states in question.

Brad Thor, A Penley Painting and more

The day had a rough start. I was having trouble getting out the door. We had no hot water, so a shower was not possible. I sighed and just figured I’d showered at the hotel before the event, so I loaded the last few items and pulled out. I will say my hubby took 5 minutes to load six jars of his homemade beer into the van, in hopes Brad would enjoy it since he couldn’t accompany me.

(For those of you who do not know I am recovering from ankle surgery, so I’m using a wheelchair and crutches to get around.)

The details of the actual trip will be another post.

I arrived at the Books For Heroes event about three hours early. The place was already buzzing with activity. People were stopping in to buy books, others were setting up the microphone, food was starting to arrive.

There was one final touch a Penley painting mentioned in the book was being hung. The best part was Brad Thor had no idea the painting was going to be there.

The Penley painting mentioned in Brad Thor's Hidden Order

The Penley painting mentioned in Brad Thor’s Hidden Order

The look on his face when he saw it was amazing, sorry I couldn’t capture it. I was in the back of the room. After admiring the painting the next item Brad Thor noticed was the American Flag. So he asked that we say the Pledge of Allegiance , which everyone did happily. Then he went on to speak about his writing, including how he got started. His advice to anyone wanting to write, is “Write what you read.” After his talk he started signing books. The first people invited up the get their copies of Hidden Order signed were those with young children. Then were people with numbers. He happily took photos with everyone there. I was floored by his energy level. I was thrilled when my turn arrived. Yes, he even happily enjoyed one of hubby’s home brews.

Brad Thor enjoying the home brew sent by my husband David.

Brad Thor enjoying the home brew sent by my husband David.

He was so upbeat, enthusiastic and happy to meet all of his fans. Everyone who wanted was able to get their picture taken with my favorite thriller writer.

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I learned one other interesting thin on my trip. Jeff Foxworthy is also a huge fan.

IMG_2540Yes I got to meet both Brad Thor & Jeff Foxworthy in one day. Jeff said he would have loved to stay for the event but had family obligations.

As far as the event itself went, 200 books were sold!!! I could write pages about this event, however I wanted to keep it short.

Note to Brad Thor:  Thank you for the opportunity to say the Pledge of Allegiance. It is something that seems to be getting lost and overlooked lately.

 

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